The
word “rape” itself originates from the Lain verb, “rapere” meaning “to seize or
take by force”. The word originally had no sexual connotation, but now it’s
become a criminal and sexual offense to individuals. Legally speaking, the word
“rape” means “a criminal offence” denied in most states of forcible sexual
relations with a person against their will.
But
why rape? Why women? And moreover, why no capital punishment for it? Recently,
after coming across the news of the Delhi Gang rape case, not just me, but more
than half the country was in complete SHOCK! The others probably composed of
male chauvinists, politicians, rapists themselves. When certain countries like
the Saudi Arabia, Dubai, America, etc. can have rapists stoned to death, as
part of their law, or undergo castration, then why doesn’t India have anything
to do about it?
On
the other hand, the male politicians are encouraging the rapists by blaming the
women and girls. And blaming for what? Wearing Jeans and Skirts? What about
girls as young as 3 years or women as old as 80? How could they possibly
provoke men to rape them? But I believe that one day; men will fall short of
excuses. The other day, I was watching India TV and they were viewing their
sting operation as to how men shamelessly and openly eves-tease women in
public.
Pranab
Mukherjee, our unfortunate President had announced that Nirbhaya’s death will
not go wasted, but the very next day his son, Abhijit Mukherjee had announced a
disgusting comment on women. On the other hand, Monmohan Singh, being a father
of 3 girls, took a week to prepare his speech and surprisingly had nothing
extraordinary.
However,
by changing the law, I don’t think things will change. Its rather difficult,
but to change the mind-set of every individual in this country. The parliament
is filled with old people, besides. And they say, “Youth is the future of our
county”?? If the politicians want women not to wear jeans and skirts in the 21st
century, they have got to be victims of mental instability.
How
must we change the mind-set of Indians? Silent rallies, Candle Marches, bombing
the entire parliament, giving a Bharat bandh, or just ignoring everything that
has happened and moving on? Though India is going through such a trauma, people
have still been partying, people still continue to ignore everything and keep
walking forward. One of the rape cases, which I had come across in the news was
that of a woman, who stopped a child marriage in her village, was raped by 6
man, and hasn’t had one hearing in court for the past 17 years. What is the use
of having fast track courts, or having a helpline for women? If they don’t put
all the ideas in use, India’s development will go down the drain, eventually. Changing
the mind-set is harder than any thought, when even the Indian Government doesn’t
help. For my security, I personally carry “Pepper Spray”.
In
conclusion, I’d say, wear what you want to wear, as long as it covers your
body. Be confident ladies, because if you aren’t then don’t get out of your
house. So be confident and just be you, because it’s a pity that parents’ have
forgotten to teach their sons some manners. So, be proud to be a woman!
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